Oscar Mbo’s ex-girlfriend exposes him for being an abuser
Ursula Dlamini, the former partner of celebrated producer and DJ Oscar Mbo, has made severe allegations concerning domestic violence, stirring a considerable conversation on social media platforms.
<pDlamini recounted her experiences on Instagram, sharing photos allegedly taken during their time together and expressing the emotional suffering she has endured over the years.
In her postings, she discussed the challenge of revisiting the past, noting that while she has moved on, the trauma still emerges unexpectedly.
Now in a new marriage and a mother, Dlamini explained that her choice to speak out was rooted in the need to safeguard her peace and family, as well as to cease protecting someone whom she believes has caused her significant harm.
She conveyed moments when memories intrude on her daily life, compelling her to revisit experiences she had tried to endure silently.
“Today was so triggering for me guys,” she wrote. “Oscar used to abuse me and I have to live with days like these where I’ll get triggered in the middle of a task at work then go about my day like nothing is happening when I’m dying inside. Why am I even protecting this monster?”
In another post, she addressed the topic of accountability and the emotional burden that continues to follow her, despite the end of the relationship.
While she recognized that her life has progressed, she indicated that true healing remains difficult without justice.
“I’m doing it for myself and my kids and my husband but I just wish he could pay and be held accountable for what he did to me all those years. I’ll never heal,” she shared.
Her statements sparked a wave of reactions online, with many showing support and commending her for bringing attention to an issue that is often hidden.
However, some urged a cautious approach, highlighting the gravity of the allegations and the necessity for due legal process.
Oscar Mbo has yet to publicly address these allegations. The claims remain untested in a court of law.
Oscar Mbo is also being accused of GBV , hectic 😓 pic.twitter.com/gdguMdRIO6
— The Instigator (@Am_Blujay) January 13, 2026
