Mihlali Ndamase exposes man who has been allegedly threatening and stalking her
Influencer and media figure Mihlali Ndamase has expressed her fears for her own safety and that of her family in a public statement that raises serious concerns.
In a post on Instagram, Ndamase stated that her decision to speak out was motivated by a need for “safety and self-preservation,” emphasizing that it was vital for the facts to come to light in case anything happens to her.
She claimed that she has been enduring harassment and intimidation for several months from a man identified as Michael Brits, who is also referred to as “Mike.”
According to Ndamase, her rejection of his advances intensified his obsessive behavior, making her increasingly uneasy.
She alleged that he has been following her, appearing unannounced at her workplace, and confronting her in places where she thought she was safe, suggesting that he was monitoring her movements.
“My privacy has been repeatedly violated,” she stated, noting that family members had been approached publicly and people were allegedly hired to track her and take pictures of her without permission.
Ndamase also voiced her concern over misleading and damaging narratives about her life circulating on the internet.
She asserted that certain blogs and news outlets have disseminated these claims without proper fact-checking, causing harm to her reputation and putting her safety further at risk by presenting falsehoods as reality.
Currently, she is in contact with law enforcement and is pursuing legal avenues to ensure her protection.
Ndamase clarified that her motivation for sharing this information is not to gain attention or sympathy, but rather because remaining silent has become increasingly perilous.
“I am speaking publicly not for attention and not for sympathy but because silence has become unsafe,” she said.
“It is important that it is known that these concerns have been raised and that this behaviour has been ongoing.”
In her comments regarding broader issues such as consent and personal boundaries, Ndamase addressed the challenges faced by women in the public sphere.
“As a person with influence, I understand scrutiny. Influence however does not equal consent,” she pointed out.
“A woman does not owe access to her life, her body or her time because she was pursued. Rejection is not provocation.”
She concluded her message with a strong statement: “We need to come to a point where men understand that courting a woman does not entitle them to you or your body. No means no.”
