Ntando Duma says men with kids are turn-off
South African actress and producer Ntando Duma has ignited a fiery discussion online after candidly sharing her disinterest in dating men with children.
The performer, who recently married musician Una Rams and celebrated the birth of their daughter, revealed her stance during a chat on L-Tido’s podcast.
She emphasized that she has never been involved with a father and that men with kids have never appealed to her.
Though Ntando was straightforward about her views, her statements swiftly ignited controversy on X, as many accused her of displaying “double standards.”
Critics highlighted that Una chose to be with her even though she was already a mother when they began their relationship.
Notorious social media figure Chris Excel commented: “This is what I always tell you brothers. Step fathers are the men that single mothers would not date if they didn’t have kids. The man who got her pregnant first was her type, not you. She’s with you because her type left her for better bums.”
Others shared similar thoughts, with one user mentioning, “Why is she even on that podcast? She’s embarrassing that brother.”
Another added, “We were called bitter for saying her husband is a Simpopo, but she’s the one exposing red flags. Every week it’s something new; last week it was sexy pictures online, now this.”
This what I always tell you brothers
Step fathers are the men that single mothers would not date if they did not have kids..
The man who get her pregnant first was her type not you !!
She is with you because her type left her for better bums.
pic.twitter.com/QCh47kMsRS— ChrisExcel (@ChrisExcel102) August 22, 2025
