Well-known media personality Unathi Nkayi has shared insights into her relationship with a younger individual, often dubbed a Ben 10. Following her divorce from fellow radio host Thomas “Bad Boy T” Msengana, Nkayi has kept details of her dating life largely under wraps.
In the past, the former Idols SA judge has been romantically linked to several notable figures, including fitness enthusiast Vusi Mavreka Hlabangwana based on a shared photo. While she has not confirmed or denied past claims, Unathi Nkayi recently discussed her current relationship with a younger man.
Unathi Nkayi expresses her satisfaction with dating a younger man
On Wednesday, 27 May 2026, Unathi Nkayi posted a screenshot in response to remarks made by content creator Sadia Khan. The 47-year-old broadcaster countered Khan’s insinuations and shared that she is currently in a relationship with a younger man, without disclosing specifics like his name or age. She emphasized how her partner treats her well and is generous. Additionally, she noted that he participates in therapy, which she considers important. The post stated:
“Oh, man. I’m dating younger, and he spoils me rotten and refuses to let me spend a cent, buys me the books he’d like me to read to get to know his world more and goes to therapy, so no mom issues either.”
Unathi also shared a screenshot of her Instagram comment questioning the negative perceptions surrounding younger men. Her post included the following caption:
“Why do younger guys get such a hard rep?”
See the screenshot below:
Source: Instagram
Unathi Nkayi discusses her divorce from Thomas Msengana
Unathi Nkayi confirmed her divorce from her ex-husband, radio personality Thomas “Bad Boy T” Msengana, back in 2017, marking the end of their 14-year marriage during which they had two children.
In a 2024 interview, Unathi addressed rumors of infidelity, stating that their separation was not due to cheating. She explained that they had grown apart and took years to manage the emotional aspects of their split with the guidance of family elders.
After the divorce, Unathi revealed that she spent over R750,000 in a lawsuit to clear her name from infidelity allegations that surfaced. Although she won the case against the publication that published the false claims, she only received R20,000.
She has been candid about the psychological effects of the separation, including turning to alcohol during particularly challenging times.
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